Reading about the compatibility of two partners or friends is one of the reasons why people turn to Astrology. We want to know that the person we are romantically involved with is indeed the right one and we often turn to the stars to guide us in this romantic pursuit.

But the answer to the compatibility question is not so definite. In fact, most experienced astrologers would tell you that there is no such thing as a perfect combability among the stars and that the only way two people are going to be having matching personalities is if they are birthday twins (according to one study). So how do we go about finding a partner in light of Astrology? Here are some pointers on doing just that:

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Emotional Balance

Any and all relationships are based on emotional responsiveness, safety, and balance. Love is what makes us feel vulnerable, empathetic, and caring. If it does not make you ‘feel’ things, then perhaps it's not the right person for you. And if your partner is not reciprocating your emotional needs and reactions, then the compatibility is under question. Under the realm of the ‘Mood,’ emotional compatibility can be achieved but emotional balance, in fact, depends on many different factors such as the moon and planets like Neptune and Pluto.

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Smooth Communication

It is observed that Mercury, which is responsible for healthy communication, makes the communication flow between two partners. Couples with the same Mercury sign have an easier time communicating than those without the same Mercury sign. Mercury, when combined with a different star sign such as Venus or Sagittarius would be quite frustrating to connect, because of opposing views and opinions.

Expanding Horizons

According to some studies, it is found that having Jupiter in contact with individual planets can have a positive effect on all relationships, both romantic and platonic. Jupiter creates optimism, positivity, and sweetness, and having a Jupiter in your relationship would almost feel like the world has expanded and that anything is possible.

spirit111/Pixabay. Having a Jupiter with individual planets is a good sign for you two

Securing Your Relationship

More aspects from outer planets can make your relationship difficult while fewer aspects seem to secure your relationship from conflict and disharmony. Outer planets can store explosive energies, increasing sexual appetite, but also creating more drama and reducing the feeling of safety. Having an inner planet connection is crucial for a wholesome relationship because otherwise, you will end up feeling hollow and in ruins.

Remember that these are all your generalizations and if your relationship feels good, there is nothing to worry about. You can get astrological readings pertaining to your specific relationship to know even more about each other.